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Family Lawyers Helping you Divorce With Dignity


At Fait & DiLima, LLP, we provide exceptional representation for those
in the midst of family law disputes in Maryland.

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Marjorie DiLima Named One of This Year’s Top Attorneys in Bethesda Magazine

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Welcome To Fait & DiLima, LLP

Our family law attorneys have more than 120+ years of collective legal experience and have earned numerous accolades and achievements in the family law field. We excel in our practice because we combine our extensive legal experience with an approach that combines the compassion we have for our clients with our understanding of the deeply personal and sensitive nature of family law matters.

Why Hire Us?

We of Fait & DiLima are award winning attorneys and passionate advocates for the needs and rights of our clients. We apply our knowledge of the law, family systems, psychology and human interactions to all we do. However, when court is unavoidable, we are skilled, strategic and zealous litigators.

Award-Winning Law Firm

As an award-winning family law firm recognized by U.S. News, Best Lawyers and Super Lawyers, we are dedicated to providing exceptional legal representation with compassion and expertise.

Large Firm Capabilities, Personal Touch

With over 120+ years of combined experience and extensive expertise, we offer the capabilities of a large firm while delivering the personalized service you deserve.

Empathy-Driven Legal Solutions

We combine legal expertise with genuine empathy to create compassionate, customized solutions for your family law needs.

120+

Years Combined Experience

2500+

Families We've Helped

25

Top Attorney
Awards

1000+

Of Lives Changed

10

Best Law Firms
Awards

28

Super Lawyers
Awards

Practice Areas

We have a deep understanding of the complex legal issues that impact families. No matter the area, we pride ourselves on our ability to use our expert knowledge with compassion to bring you exceptional results.

Testimonials

Explore how we’ve supported our clients with compassion and expertise in their family law matters.

Fait & DiLima, LLP - Dedicated Maryland Family Law Attorneys

The legal system can disrupt family dynamics, and while negotiated settlements are often ideal, some family law issues require litigation. Whether negotiating or litigating, we prioritize your best interests with skill, knowledge, compassion, and innovative thinking.

Our statewide practice, focusing on Frederick, Montgomery, and Howard counties, is equipped to handle complex issues such as gender, personality disorders, addiction, narcissism, and mental health challenges. We understand how these factors escalate conflicts and competently and compassionately, provide exceptional care and representation.

Dorothy R. Fait

Founding Partner

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Marjorie G. DiLima

CEO and Owner

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Michael Fortini

Michael Fortini

Senior Attorney

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Featured Podcasts

Navigating the Challenges of Divorcing a Narcissist – Interview with Erin Schaden on Dad to Dads Podcast

August 27, 2024

On the Dad to Dads Podcast, family law attorney Erin Schaden unpacks the challenges of high-conflict divorces involving narcissistic personalities, offering practical strategies for documentation, planning, and safeguarding children throughout the custody process.

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Erin Schaden, Family Law Attorney, Returns to the Dad to Dads Podcast

April 02, 2024

In this compelling follow-up appearance, family law attorney Erin Schaden provides candid insights into the complexities of modern divorce proceedings, from custody battles and domestic violence to the role of emotional maturity and AI, while emphasizing the critical importance of prioritizing children’s wellbeing throughout the process.

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Marjorie G. DiLima Joins the Lawyers Who Care Podcast with Andrew Samalin

March 19, 2024

Marjorie G. DiLima, Managing Partner of Fait & DiLima, appeared on the “Lawyers Who Care” podcast to discuss her commitment to compassionate and effective family law advocacy.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Answers to questions commonly asked by our clients.

  • Non-custodial parents have limited rights over how the money from child support payments is used. Child support is intended to benefit the child by covering expenses such as clothing, food, housing, medical care, school fees, and extracurricular activities. While the receiving parent may indirectly benefit when using these funds for shared household expenses like rent or utilities, the money should not be used for their personal indulgences.

    In Maryland, courts do not require the receiving parent to provide an accounting of how child support is spent. If you believe your child isn’t benefiting from the support you provide or suspect the funds are being misused, please contact our child support lawyers.

  • Unlike many other states, Maryland does not have “common law” marriage, in which couples cohabiting for a certain period of time have the same property and other marital rights as a married couple. So, while you do not need to take legal action to end this relationship, there may be issues dividing jointly owned property and debts.

    If you have a valid common-law marriage created in another state, one which does assign property rights to common-law spouses, then you will need to take legal action to dissolve the marriage and work through the courts to divide joint liabilities and assets. Our family lawyers can help with this.

  • Our divorce coaches help clients create post-divorce life plans. We can recommend emotional support and practical guidance to help build a positive future after divorce. We assist with co-parenting arrangements, parenting plans, financial advice, budgeting, and more.

    There are less-obvious realities many people face post-divorce, ones that you may not be thinking of during the split. A divorce coach can help you avoid common pitfalls newly separated people fall into, as well as guide you to opportunities you may not notice. They can create a comprehensive plan to help you create a new routine and schedule and look toward your best interests.

  • If you have concerns about your child’s safety while they’re spending visitation time with the other parent, you may petition the judge to require that each visit be supervised. Our visitation attorneys can explain your options to have a neutral third party supervise the interactions between your child and their parent.

    Maryland’s courts generally only order supervised visitation if the judge has a reasonable belief that the child has been abused or neglected by the parent in the past or that abuse or neglect could occur during unsupervised visits. Bear in mind, though, that supervised visitation likely won’t be approved if you disagree with the other parent’s parenting choices, only if the child could be in danger.

  • Maryland family courts may deem a parent unfit if they fail to provide proper care, support, and guidance for their child, putting the child at risk or otherwise not acting in the child’s best interests. This can include situations involving physical abuse, neglect, substance abuse, domestic violence, or a history of criminal behavior.

    Our attorneys can help you gather the necessary evidence to support your petition, such as photos, videos, police reports, medical records, and witness testimony. We will present this evidence according to the state’s rules to advocate for your child’s well-being.

  • Fait & DiLima, LLP specializes in a comprehensive range of family law matters throughout Maryland, with a primary focus on Frederick, Montgomery, and Howard counties. The firm handles divorce proceedings, child custody and visitation arrangements, child support modifications, alimony disputes, property distribution, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, domestic violence cases, and protective orders. Our attorneys are particularly experienced in complex situations involving high-asset divorces, hidden assets, narcissistic personality disorders, addiction, mental health challenges, and other factors that can escalate family conflicts. With over 120 years of combined legal experience, our team approaches each case with both legal expertise and compassion, understanding the deeply personal nature of family law matters.

  • The divorce process in Maryland can follow different paths depending on your circumstances and goals. Fait & DiLima, LLP offers both litigation and alternative dispute resolution options, including divorce mediation, which empowers couples to resolve matters without protracted court battles. Our attorneys guide clients through every stage, from initial consultations and filing paperwork to negotiations, courtroom appearances, and post-divorce modifications. Maryland family law addresses critical issues such as grounds for divorce, equitable distribution of marital property, spousal support determination, child custody arrangements, and child support calculations. The experienced team at Fait & DiLima, LLP combines over 120 years of legal knowledge with understanding of family dynamics and psychology to develop strategies tailored to each client’s unique situation, always prioritizing the best interests of children involved.

  • Fait & DiLima, LLP stands out as an award-winning family law firm that combines large firm capabilities with personalized, empathy-driven service. We’ve been recognized by U.S. News, Best Lawyers, and Super Lawyers, earning over 25 top attorney awards and 10 best law firms designations. Our attorneys bring over 120 years of combined experience and have helped more than 2,500 families navigate difficult legal situations. What truly distinguishes the firm is our compassionate approach that integrates legal expertise with understanding of family systems, psychology, and human interactions. We serve clients in both English and Spanish and offer multiple service options including skilled litigation when necessary and alternative dispute resolution when appropriate, always focusing on helping families “divorce with dignity.”

Blog

Stay informed with the latest family law news and advice from Fait & DiLima, LLP.

Handling Problems With Surrogacy Agreements

Surrogacy agreements form the foundation of your journey to parenthood, but what happens when something goes wrong with the paperwork? A flawed or improperly executed contract can create serious legal complications that affect your ability to establish parental rights. Our friends at Oleaga Law LLC discuss how these situations require immediate attention to protect your […]

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Financial Abuse In Maryland Marriages

Financial abuse doesn’t always leave visible bruises, but it can be just as damaging as physical violence. When one spouse uses money as a weapon to control, manipulate, or trap the other, it creates a prison without bars. Many victims don’t even recognize what’s happening until they’re completely dependent and isolated. What Financial Abuse Looks […]

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Equity Compensation In Maryland Divorce

Equity compensation has become a standard part of many employment packages, particularly in tech, finance, and executive roles. When divorce enters the picture, stock options and restricted stock units (RSUs) create unique challenges that go beyond traditional asset division. These benefits often represent significant value, but they’re not always straightforward to split. Understanding Stock Options […]

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