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July 28, 2025

What Happens To Debts When Someone Dies?


Posted in Firm News

When a loved one passes away, grieving families are often left with more than just emotional pain. They’re also faced with practical questions about what happens to the person’s finances, including debts. One of the most common concerns a probate lawyer faces is: Who pays off the debt when someone dies?

Debts Don’t Disappear, But They’re Not Always Transferred

First and foremost, debts don’t simply vanish upon death. However, that doesn’t mean family members automatically inherit them. Instead, any outstanding debts, such as credit cards, car loans, personal loans, or medical bills, are typically paid from the deceased person’s estate. The estate includes everything the person owned at the time of their death: money in bank accounts, property, vehicles, investments, and personal belongings.

The process of settling these financial obligations happens through probate, the court-supervised legal procedure for distributing a deceased person’s assets. During probate, the executor or personal representative of the estate collects the assets, pays off the valid debts, and distributes what’s left to the heirs according to the will or state law if there is no will.

When Is A Family Member Responsible?

In general, surviving family members are not personally liable for the deceased’s debts. That said, there are a few exceptions as our friends at Vayman & Teitelbaum, P.C. can share:

  • Joint Accounts Or Co-Signed Loans: If you co-signed a loan or held a joint credit card with the deceased, you are likely responsible for the remaining balance.
  • Community Property States: In certain U.S. states where community property laws apply, a surviving spouse may be held liable for debts incurred during the marriage, even if they didn’t personally sign for them.
  • Spousal Responsibility Laws: Some states have “filial responsibility” laws that could require a surviving spouse or even adult children to pay certain debts, such as unpaid medical or nursing home bills, although these are rarely enforced.

What About Assets Outside The Estate?

Some assets are not considered part of the probate estate and usually cannot be used to pay off debts. These include:

  • Life insurance policies with named beneficiaries
  • Retirement accounts like IRAs and 401(k)s with named beneficiaries.
  • Payable-on-death (POD) or transfer-on-death (TOD) accounts
  • Joint tenancy property with right of survivorship

Because these assets pass directly to the named individual, they are generally protected from creditors, unless that individual is also responsible for the debt.

Why Understanding Debt After Death Matters

For families, knowing how debt is handled can ease confusion and reduce unnecessary stress. It’s not uncommon for debt collectors to contact grieving relatives in hopes of collecting payment, even if they’re not legally responsible. Understanding your rights can help you respond with confidence and avoid being taken advantage of.

When someone dies, their debts are handled by the estate, not by default by their family. While debts can exceed the estate’s value, most loved ones won’t be held accountable unless they shared legal responsibility. Planning ahead with clear documentation and professional guidance can make a world of difference.

If you’re facing this situation, consider consulting a probate attorney. They can help clarify responsibilities, manage creditor claims, and guide you through the estate settlement process.

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